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>From the top of Mount Ararat, a peek at Iran
Fred Gray
March 10, 2007
Vail Daily News, COLORADO
Editor's note: Fred Gray is a journalist in Petoskey, Michigan. He
wrote this column about his son Ryan Gray's travels to Turkey and the
Kurdistan region. Ryan is a history teacher at Vail Mountain School.
He's a world traveler, engaging educator, graceful skier, unstoppable
hiker, powerful essayist and photographer, and for 10 months a year, a
man absorbed in the affairs of the world, from high in the Rocky
Mountains at the Vail Mountain School.
And best of all, he's my son.
In the past few years Ryan, now 32, has spent his summers in Southeast
Asia, on the Indian subcontinent, and most recently in Turkey, where
he hiked to the top of Mount Ararat, Noah's reputed landfall after the
Great Flood.
"At 6 a.m.," Ryan wrote about his encounter with Ararat, "the sun's
warming rays hit us on the glacier, and they felt sublime. We were at
16,600 feet with one more peak of ice to climb. I was energized again,
feeling more oxygen than ever. With one more step, I had made it!"
>From the summit he crawled out on a rocky precipice and gazed at the
plains that spread out before him several miles below.
"For me the mountains and volcanoes below looked like anthills that
had sprayed their black ashes on Georgia, Armenia, Iran and Turkey,
four countries united by geography but divided by borders.
"Like in Nepal, I just sat in peace, thinking about life and the
direction it would take me," he wrote, invoking an analogy from a
previous trip.
Ryan persuaded his school to pay the airfare to summer destinations of
his choosing, in return for lectures about his travels on his
return. I was gifted with a copy of his 150-page journal that landed
on my doorstep on Christmas Day.
In it Ryan made me his companion, alternating thoughtful meanderings
with witty asides, spiced with slightly naughty remarks about the
women, and men, he met along the way.
During his travels, Ryan stayed in the youth hostels of what must
considered one of the world's true melting pots, where he met Turks,
Kurds, Israelis, Palestinians, Iranians, French, Italians, Germans,
Koreans, Japanese, Serbs, Slovenians, Croats, a few Americans and
others.
There young people watched World Cup matches and expressed
anti-U.S. views. Typical were the sentiments of a 24-year-old Kurdish
"Ice Maiden," a French teacher named Guzete:
"Saddam Hussein is a very bad man for killing so many Kurds, but Bush
is the same. He killed so many Iraqis with bombs. Saddam and Bush -
the same."
Among the fantastic women he encountered was Neda, a 28-year-old med
student born in Iran but living in San Francisco for 27 years.
"She had volunteered her medical knowledge in Africa, including
Rwanda, Uganda and Cameroon. She was an outdoor enthusiast and a
tri-athlete. Whatstruck me most about Neda was her altruism and
genuine smile. This girl had it all," Ryan wrote.
Ryan found himself to be a fair match at backgammon against aging
Turks, mesmerized by whirling dervishes, and captivated by tightly
woven kilim rugs, two of which he purchased and tossed in his 50-pound
backpack to carry through the rest of the trip.
Ry had an insatiable appetite for kebaps (meat), rice and an
occasional sewt (milk) which he said tasted "like it was a few months
expired. I felt at home."
Along the way he wandered through dozens of medieval castles and ruins
from the Hellenistic period. He even found a dust-covered,
leather-bound book titled "How Darwin Has Plagued Society," which held
that Darwin led to the disasters of the 20th century (communism,
fascism, capitalism) by removing God from people's lives.
"The HUGE fallacy," Ryan noted after poring though it, was that "the
book failed to mention that religion too has resulted in war, social
hierarchy,and mistreatment."
After 150 pages Ryan distilled the lessons he learned through his 50
days of travel through Turkey and Greece.
You might find a few of them worth reflecting on:
- "We are all essentially the same. Instead of focusing on our minor
differences, we need to focus on how we are alike and build more
amiable relationships with one another.
- "At the same time, diversity is a positive attribute that needs to
be celebrated with open minds and not by firing guns.
- "We should require a year of social service for our young peoplethat
will help us rebuild our reputation as a nation of positive influence
around the world.
- "We must learn that giving is more valuable than receiving.
- "We must judge people for who they are not by their government or
stereotype."
- "We must listen carefully to those around us, whether they be
Israeli solders, Kurdish shepherds, Iranian refugees or Turkish
doctors.
- "And we must never take our basic freedoms for granted."
Ryan tells a moving story behind each lesson. They're all
convincing. Trust me.
Fred Gray
March 10, 2007
Vail Daily News, COLORADO
Editor's note: Fred Gray is a journalist in Petoskey, Michigan. He
wrote this column about his son Ryan Gray's travels to Turkey and the
Kurdistan region. Ryan is a history teacher at Vail Mountain School.
He's a world traveler, engaging educator, graceful skier, unstoppable
hiker, powerful essayist and photographer, and for 10 months a year, a
man absorbed in the affairs of the world, from high in the Rocky
Mountains at the Vail Mountain School.
And best of all, he's my son.
In the past few years Ryan, now 32, has spent his summers in Southeast
Asia, on the Indian subcontinent, and most recently in Turkey, where
he hiked to the top of Mount Ararat, Noah's reputed landfall after the
Great Flood.
"At 6 a.m.," Ryan wrote about his encounter with Ararat, "the sun's
warming rays hit us on the glacier, and they felt sublime. We were at
16,600 feet with one more peak of ice to climb. I was energized again,
feeling more oxygen than ever. With one more step, I had made it!"
>From the summit he crawled out on a rocky precipice and gazed at the
plains that spread out before him several miles below.
"For me the mountains and volcanoes below looked like anthills that
had sprayed their black ashes on Georgia, Armenia, Iran and Turkey,
four countries united by geography but divided by borders.
"Like in Nepal, I just sat in peace, thinking about life and the
direction it would take me," he wrote, invoking an analogy from a
previous trip.
Ryan persuaded his school to pay the airfare to summer destinations of
his choosing, in return for lectures about his travels on his
return. I was gifted with a copy of his 150-page journal that landed
on my doorstep on Christmas Day.
In it Ryan made me his companion, alternating thoughtful meanderings
with witty asides, spiced with slightly naughty remarks about the
women, and men, he met along the way.
During his travels, Ryan stayed in the youth hostels of what must
considered one of the world's true melting pots, where he met Turks,
Kurds, Israelis, Palestinians, Iranians, French, Italians, Germans,
Koreans, Japanese, Serbs, Slovenians, Croats, a few Americans and
others.
There young people watched World Cup matches and expressed
anti-U.S. views. Typical were the sentiments of a 24-year-old Kurdish
"Ice Maiden," a French teacher named Guzete:
"Saddam Hussein is a very bad man for killing so many Kurds, but Bush
is the same. He killed so many Iraqis with bombs. Saddam and Bush -
the same."
Among the fantastic women he encountered was Neda, a 28-year-old med
student born in Iran but living in San Francisco for 27 years.
"She had volunteered her medical knowledge in Africa, including
Rwanda, Uganda and Cameroon. She was an outdoor enthusiast and a
tri-athlete. Whatstruck me most about Neda was her altruism and
genuine smile. This girl had it all," Ryan wrote.
Ryan found himself to be a fair match at backgammon against aging
Turks, mesmerized by whirling dervishes, and captivated by tightly
woven kilim rugs, two of which he purchased and tossed in his 50-pound
backpack to carry through the rest of the trip.
Ry had an insatiable appetite for kebaps (meat), rice and an
occasional sewt (milk) which he said tasted "like it was a few months
expired. I felt at home."
Along the way he wandered through dozens of medieval castles and ruins
from the Hellenistic period. He even found a dust-covered,
leather-bound book titled "How Darwin Has Plagued Society," which held
that Darwin led to the disasters of the 20th century (communism,
fascism, capitalism) by removing God from people's lives.
"The HUGE fallacy," Ryan noted after poring though it, was that "the
book failed to mention that religion too has resulted in war, social
hierarchy,and mistreatment."
After 150 pages Ryan distilled the lessons he learned through his 50
days of travel through Turkey and Greece.
You might find a few of them worth reflecting on:
- "We are all essentially the same. Instead of focusing on our minor
differences, we need to focus on how we are alike and build more
amiable relationships with one another.
- "At the same time, diversity is a positive attribute that needs to
be celebrated with open minds and not by firing guns.
- "We should require a year of social service for our young peoplethat
will help us rebuild our reputation as a nation of positive influence
around the world.
- "We must learn that giving is more valuable than receiving.
- "We must judge people for who they are not by their government or
stereotype."
- "We must listen carefully to those around us, whether they be
Israeli solders, Kurdish shepherds, Iranian refugees or Turkish
doctors.
- "And we must never take our basic freedoms for granted."
Ryan tells a moving story behind each lesson. They're all
convincing. Trust me.